Lately I have been on this whole "paths" thing. We all face forks in our daily road and choose one path or the other. I faced one of those potential life changing path decisions several years ago. Basically, it was between two different potential relationships. One, my mom kept trying to set me up with (one of her fellow co-workers) and the other I met on my own. Her co-worker expressed interest in me. Both were attractive women, but each had their own unique qualities. One has a very, very beautiful singing voice, the other had a fun playful tomboyish spirit about her.
I chose the playful tomboyish woman. Even though it didn't work out, I didn't regret my decision. The other woman eventually found someone, got married, and moved away. I always wondered, what if I chose that path instead? If I saw her today, would I feel I made a mistake in my life?
The answer is a resounding NO. I saw her today and I realized that we just didn't have any type of connection. Not then and definitely not now. So what's the whole point of all this? Well, I guess it just reinforces that I have to trust my judgement. Yeah my decisions may not always be right, but they were the best decision at that time.
I swear Karma reads my site and follows my advice. When I was second guessing my decision to dodge the bullet, no sooner than 30 minutes later I had my second chance to correct my mistake. And when I decided to stop running around in circles, Karma drops a situation into my lap. I'm just going to leave well enough alone and continue down this road I picked.
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